Deciphering women can be quite a daunting task. Men never seem to understand what women want from them. The key lies in effective communication, however women who thoroughly express themselves can often be misunderstood as too hungry or too needy of love. A woman who is not afraid to repeat a million times, how much she adores you and needs you, is often seen as a sign of weakness and desperation by men. The ones that play hard to get, seem to seek after. However, men do not often know how to look for gold amongst dirt. The loyalty is seen, as a sign of desperation is actually a worthy virtue. Men you should open your eyes, instead of choosing to remain oblivious. She is not fake, thus opens up to you like an unseen chapter of a forbidden book. Never mistake her resilience for dependence. If she does the things mentioned below for you, she is worth all your time and love.
She is not afraid to tell you how much she loves you:
Whether it is through simple post it notes, or long poetic texts, she will remind you how much you are valued and loved all the time. She is not afraid to speak her mind, even if it makes her appear needy. Although people constantly warn her that is continuous need, will eventually tire you out. However, even through all those insecurities of having her heart torn to a million pieces she still chooses to make you feel special and loved as many times as she can.
She is not afraid to appear imperfect:
Yes, maybe her waist is not thin enough, or the hair a tad bit short or frizzy, but she is not afraid to show you what she really is. Perfection is an over rated virtue and people must be loved despite their crookedness and cracks. Whether she is sick or depressed she will never be afraid to demonstrate her vulnerability in front of you. Yes, she has been betrayed in the past, but she lays open all her insecurities, but that makes her all the more vulnerable doesn’t it.
Let’s you always have the last word:
Whether it is a debate or a simple task of choosing what to order, she always gives in without much protest. That does not in any way imply that she is weak, but willing fully lets you choose each time, whether it’s ordering a pizza, or order furniture for your living room, she is a great listener. In her each and every, ‘as you wish’ there is a secret message of love. It is not a sign of submission but her resilience in love.
Always seems to be there for you, no matter when you need her:
Whether you are down with a nasty flu, or any other form of ailment she never gives you a cold shoulder. She is always around when you need her. She will shower you with love and support when you are at your lowest. She clearly loves you with all her heart and is not afraid to show it. She is your ultimate pillar of strength holding strong amidst the strong winds of a storm.
She cannot stay angry at you for too long:
No matter when you fight with her, she mostly apologizes first. She goes out of the way to apologize in the sweetest ever, if it is her fault. She will leave you the cutest of texts, with an occasional I miss you, which will make you smile each time. Your fights last for an hour, as she cannot bear the thought of losing you. She is firmly attached to you and is not afraid to show it.
Will always put your needs before hers:
Will always make sure you eat before her; take your medicines on time. She will do the kind gestures of kissing you before sending you off for work. She makes sure your socks are always organized and shirts are always ironed. She understands what you need before you can say anything. She will put you at ease. Knows exactly what blend of tea or coffee you need after you come from a tiring day of work. Your breakfast will always be made before you get up, and it’s always the omelet you love eating each day. Yes, she has you entirely covered.
She refuses to do anything without you:
Even a home cooked meal with her is luxurious. She always waits for you to do everything together. Whether it is the monthly groceries, or the daily coffee, she sees every little thing as an opportunity to spend more time with you. She makes everything enjoyable. No matter how late you are, she will always wait to eat with you. She cannot sleep without you, she wants to take every step with you.
She is your best friend:
You know you can always trust her with everything, your valuables and all your secrets. She is like a gem, a loyal friend who will always be there to pick you up when you fall, get you back up on your feet. You can always count on her to provide you shelter while you wait for the storm to pass. You can tell her everything about how your day went, the traffic in the morning, a trouble at work, because she is an awesome listener!
Travelling together is bliss:
Going for a vacation, you can always count on her to do the smartest packing. She will take utmost care of your need. The long walks at the beach are always worth it. She looks so beautiful in the colorful sunset. Time spent with her flies away. You can spend days getting lost with her in a new city, adventures together are always so much fun. You almost wish the vacation never ended.
She always seems to miss you:
Taking a trip, or out with friends she will always be the first one to text you or call you to ask if it’s all ok, so that she can hear your voice. She may be afraid to let you know she is already missing you. It makes her appear clingy, but you occupy such a vital space in her world. She fears she might miss something important. You have to text her back on how you miss her too, and that you’re ok and will be back soon, it will surely make her day.
Never forgets any important date:
The anniversary or the first time you saw each other she will surely remember every little thing. She will always be the first one to remind you of an anniversary or wish you a happy birthday right at midnight. No important date or event will ever be forgotten. She will attempt to make every day special for you. Anniversaries will be planned for days ahead, and she will throw you an amazing surprise birthday. Cherish her and make sure you return her love by simple gestures such as compliments and a beautiful bouquet of roses.
She will always look her best for you:
A simple date or a night out? She will surely try to look awesome for you. You can gaze her perfect beauty for hours. She always applies makeup perfectly, whether it is the eye shadow or the subtle peachy glow on her cheeks, she always manages to look like a Greek goddess, no matter how tired or weary she is.
You get to eat your favorite meals;
She knows how to make your heart melt with perfect cheesy lasagna. She knows exactly what you love to eat from warm sweet muffins to savory delights everything tastes heavenly. She spends the weekend cooking or prepping meals so you both can eat healthy home cooked meals. You always look forward to warm meals at home now, instead of ordering takeaways.
The kids and you are always on her mind:
Even at work, worries at home preoccupy her mind. The kid’s important day at school, or the start of your new project, she will not forget anything. She will make sure you have all the support you need before your latest upcoming presentation at work. The kids will thoroughly be encouraged before any exam or test at school, she will be sure to drag you all their games and events. No matter what you say she is the invisible glue that binds you all together.
All these years and you still go on date nights:
Yes, there is nothing like a perfect night out, after all these years she acts like a young girl who you first fell in love with. She never lets the spark go out. It is, as not all those years have ever passed. It is still feels like you met yesterday. You always try out new restaurants in the neighborhood each weekend. You both thoroughly enjoy each other’s company.
She always takes your opinion very seriously:
You say purple suits her, or she looks phenomenal with her hair down. She always makes a mental note of it. She trusts you with all her heart. She will ask you for advice every step of her life. She values you as a companion. She will never take any drastic step without your opinion and will always seek your advice. You both like to take your decisions together as a couple.
Always treasure her for life:
Never be ashamed how she treats you in public, and how worthy she makes you feel. Do not get tired of the hundred texts she sends you each day. She will always reiterate what you mean to her do not push her away. She is not too clingy or weak; she is very strong and survived many hardships before you. She has been loved and heartbroken, thus has seen both sides of the rainbow. She realizes your worth, and gives this relationship priority. Value her, for you may never find a girl who loves you like that ever again.
No she is not needy, she just loves you:
Yes, she loves big and she loves hard. She is not afraid to tell the world she is fully committed to you and her heart is all yours. Do not lose her for anything in the world, she is a gem. Her strength is unparalleled and she very resilient. She will do anything to keep you close. The world can be a dark and selfish place; do not drive your loved ones away. Always make time for her, tell her how you appreciate everything. Return her texts; take a little burden off her shoulders. Help her around the house.
She will always appreciate your helping hand. Drop off the kids to school. Appreciate her cooking. Give her the respect she deserves. After so many hardships she has learnt to embrace love, do not disappoint her. She will brave many storms for you without expecting anything in return. Remember her birthday, wish her anniversary before she does, make time for her from your busy day and call her while at work so she knows, that you were thinking about her.
She has opened her heart to you but do not take advantage of that by ridiculing her insecurities and imperfections. Love her through sickness and difficulties. No one is perfect, she may not be either, but no matter what she will always be perfect for you, if she does what is described in the paragraphs above. As they say, “you are far from perfect, but will be imperfectly perfect for the person that loves me.”