When your boyfriend looks into your eyes to not see the most intimate part of your soul but to see his own reflection so he can fix his hair, he is a toxic guy. There are a good number of ways to assess if your guy is this kind of guy. The list below contains simple and easy to understand points for all women to find out when their men are being toxic.
1. He compares you to other girls
There is nothing more disrespecting for a woman than when his man compares her to other women or his own exes. So whenever your man holds a cheap kind of comparison of you with his exes, he is not the right guy and should be given a BYE. With comparison, he makes you feel that you are not a good woman, even if you are the best girl in the world.
2. You don’t feel like you are a priority
Every woman wants his man to make her feel special, with his actions, love, and words. When your man is going cute to controlling, it’s something you should be worried. It’s a big indication that you are in a toxic relationship that would not work too long. Never let your man control your moves, your life and what you are doing. It’s like losing all of your freedom.
3. He is all words with no action
When your man hurts you, intentionally or unintentionally, he must apologize for his actions. And if instead of apologizing, he hands you a gift, you need to wonder what kind of guy he is. This an alarming situation and is a sign of someone who is toxic for his partner.
4. He disrespects your friends and parents
A great man will always show respect for the friends and family of his partner. If he is not doing it at all, he doesn’t actually fit into your relationship. This only sign says a lot. Never marry or get into the relationship with someone who doesn’t respect your parents and friends. It will ruin your confidence and you will have the only option to break up.
5. He gets into a new relationship
Ladies, remember that if your man has any of these signs, he is toxic for your relationship. And if he is the guy with all of these things, he is the worst guy and we can just feel sorry for your choice. A toxic partner cheats and gets into a new relationship without caring what his woman will feel.
6. He gets jealous
A true man will always be proud of his woman and what she is doing in her life. On the other hand, a jealous partner can’t digest anything his woman does and he doesn’t even. Rather, he feels jealous and tries to control his woman’s life.
7. He is not independent
Being independent is a dream of every man and if your has is afraid of taking responsibilities and grow an independent man, you need to leave him and separate your ways.
How to Move On
When you will find so much about your man, it will not hurt you at all. But you will be devastated that you allowed someone to make you feel so insignificant. Now you don’t need to a new love in a man, instead, you need to a find new love for yourself.