Love has been used to describe one’s deep feelings towards someone or something. It can be in the form of a hobby or profession. It can come in the shape of love from parents to their children and children to their parents. The love that most people seek at a point in their life, however, is love in the form of a significant other. This is the love which is arguably the strongest and may only be eclipsed by love for parents towards their children. It is the most desired kind of love due to the intensely gratifying feeling it gives you.
Love is a strange and powerful thing. It is among the most powerful of emotions humans can experience and, in fact, many would call it the strongest of them all. It’s a beautiful thing to be in love. It’s near indescribable. It’s a joining of two souls. It’s when two people are willing to make every sacrifice for each other.
The misconception many people have about love is that they believe love is good and great and amazing and nothing bad at all! This is a misconception because even lovers fight with each other, from minor bickering to more violent kinds. These fights drain people and result in bad memories for both of the people involved. Some of the worst parts of loving someone is loving someone when you cannot be together. Break ups are truly devastating. Love is a great thing, but it has many risks associated with it.
Something you should know is that there are three kinds of love. These three kinds are imperative for you to grow in your love life. We’re not saying you should strictly follow the 3-love rule. If you found the love of your life in high school or at work, it Is the same.
Let us begin with the types of love and why they are so important.
First loves are beautiful, full of passion, and absolute elation. They usually occur to high schoolers or college students. In this kind of love, the two lovers are new to the experience of love and may not know how to express themselves probably. They may also try and keep their lovers happy beyond an acceptable level and would accept their every whim and command, forgetting all their flaws in the mean-time.
A young, modern age couple has one thing on their minds which is much more prominent to them than older couples. That is the appearance of their relationship on social media. These youngsters share their best moments but hide the bad, so social media is not an accurate description of whatever goes on with the couple in secret when no one is watching. Breaking up from these kinds of relationships are among the hardest because of the ripping apart of so many first-time feelings.These kinds of relationships help you discover yourself and whatever is important in a relationship to you. It will prepare you for possible heart break in the future (not just because of relationships). You grow as a lover and as an individual, and these relationships can teach you how to respect yourself also.
Although the first love was the most passionate, the complicated love is the most concise and calculated. This love occurs between people who have usually found each other in their young adult years and occurs among people who have experience in relationships before. The two people are genuine with each other and can easily share their problems with one another.
A side effect of being in such an open relationship is that fights occur more and more often as the two people disagree. These kinds of relationships are often doomed from the start and usually, leads to heart break as the two people are simply not in the right frame of minds to be together despite loving each other.
This is the kind of love that is more surprising than it was anticipated. It could happen in the blink of an eye or even over a period when you didn’t realize it. This kind of love is not as extravagant or open as the previous two, but that is by design. This love usually hits people who are experienced with love before and do not want to make the same mistakes again. They trust each other, believe each other, and even criticize each other when it is appropriate.
These relationships are long lasting and might not even end until death do the two lovers apart.