1. She is much more intelligent than you are.
It is always an added advantage when your partner is intelligent, it is even better if they are smarter than you. People who are calm and collected know that they should not see this as a negative thing and get insecure by it.
A wise person understands that they will learn from the other person and not face a lot of difficulties in life problems or communication in the relationship. A life long journey involves a person growing in all forms and if that person is not smart they will not end up growing or making wise decisions in life – which will consequently impact your life.
2. Honesty is her best policy.
She is not one of those girls who will lie to you in any circumstance. They know that there are times that it might end up hurting your feelings, but they know that in the long run it is right thing to do. They will always do the right thing and fearlessly handle to consequences of it. They are not afraid to take responsibility. They know that the respect they give you involves honestly.
She knows that you are a grown up and you need to be handled in the same manner. You do not need to be disrespected by being spoon-fed lies.
3. She maintains a healthy dose of optimism in life.
Considering that life is not a flower bed and with ups there are always downs – someone who is resilient and tough. Despite all the problems and stress knows how to keep a positive image. They know that there is hope in the world and that nothing lasts forever.
She keeps you motivated even when you are down in the dumps. She knows that she has to show you that there is still a ray of hope in the world and you are capable and strong enough to keep moving on.
4. She is willing to make compromises.
Someone who knows that a relationship is a two way road – and it involves compromise. A mature person knows that without compromise you cannot be in a functional relationship. A person can never be happy in a relationship if they have an entitled behavior.
She has a full understanding of the fact that if you want a person to share your life, it requires making space. And making space requires patience and compromise.
5. She makes you laugh, and she laughs at you.
She does not see life with dark glasses, she sees humor in things every chance she gets. You should not be afraid that the relationship will lose its zest in this case. There will not be a moment when you are bored. You will spend your life laughing and having a good time. And even in rough patches, she will see grass greener on the other side.
She finds you funny and understands the kind of sense of humor you have. This is what a happy relationship looks like. This also tells you that you as a couple have compatibility.
6. She is very open-minded.
By open-minded we mean that a person is open to new ideas. They are not ridged with their idea and learning, they know there is so much out there that needs to be understood in order for growth to take place. A person like this is flexible and easy to be with rather than someone fighting over what they think is right all the time.
They are tolerant human beings who know that everyone is entitled to their opinions and should be respected for whatever they are. Arguments should not be on the table, but discussions should be.
7. She is ambitious and goal-driven.
Her life goal was not to be someone’s wife or girlfriend. They do not require someone else to validate who they are. They have their own ambitions and goals to achieve. She is ready to work hard for the things that she wants to achieve.
She will not only want to be someone a few years down the line and keep putting efforts in growing herself but she will also motivate you to do the same.
8. She doesn’t have any parental issues.
It is not easy to be with someone who has a heavy baggage. Everyone has some kind of baggage due to their past experiences but the ones that are from childhood are very hard to shake off. And for a person who does not have a full understanding of these things would have to go through a lot because of these people.
They might need professional therapy to overcome all the damage that has been done. And if she is not clear about different concepts of her life – she will probably not raise a family with the same standards as you have.
9. She is genuinely kind.
You will not find people who have kind these days, so if you find a partner with this quality – do not let them go. They are very rare and hard to come by, they do the right things always – not because it gives them advantage but they are doing it because it is the right thing to do regardless.
They are not nice to you just to get the same thing in return from you. They do it because that is who they are and that is how they want to respect and treat you.
10. She remains cool and calm when you get into arguments.
She is calm and collected, she knows what she is feeling and knows how to process her thoughts. She will rationalize what is happening in her life and deal with it accordingly instead of being emotionally weak and destroyed.
Whenever you end up having an argument, she will not emotionally lose it – she will rationalize the situation and what the problem really is. And analyze it to know what the solution to it is.
11. She can let loose and be silly when she’s around you.
She might be very rational and serious in her life goals but that does not mean that she does not know how to let her hair down and have some fun. She knows that it is time to relax and make your partner feel light also.
She is comfortable in her skin when she is with you and she knows that she can be the way she wants to be. She trusts you are is not scared to be judged in this relationship.
12. She has a life outside of the relationship.
Her life does not revolve around work and the relationship. She is not depended on you for everything else. A healthy relationship requires space and a person should have a life outside their relationship. She is independent and talented and does not make her life all about her relationship.
She has hobbies and interests in life that she wants to peruse. She has dreams and she words towards making them true.
13. She understands that you’re a flawed individual.
She has a strong understands that a human being is not perfect, and is going to make mistakes in life. She knows that in order to have a successful relationship, she needs to forgive a person for the things that they do. Having expectations from a person that is not based on ground reality will always lead in disappointment.
In order to be like this she knows that it requires patience and a lot of character strength.
14. She doesn’t carry any grudges with her.
She knows that there will be ups and downs in the relationship – she knows that holding things against a person will not lead to anything but more negative emotions. She knows that once you have forgiven a person for their flaws then you need to forget it also.