Trying to guess if someone loves you or not can get a little tricky. If they never tell you, then how are you supposed to know, right? Well, we have a few ways that may be showing you they love you without actually confessing their emotions. Do you know men and women have very different body language when they are around someone they love? Read the article till the end to know about these things precisely. Let’s take a look at some of the signs someone is secretly in love with you.
1. Body Language
If all else fails, the best way to know someone is secretly in love with you is to pay attention to their body language. They may be giving away clues without even knowing it.
If a guy likes a girl, and they are enjoying the conversation, he is going to lean in while he is talking. And, if he is walking with a girl, he may put his hand on the small of her back to let her know he is there. This is an intimate place to touch someone, so a guy wouldn’t do it for no reason. If it’s a girl who is crushing on a guy, she may do little things like touching him on the chest, hand, or shoulder.
2. They Get Your Attention
Speaking of wanting your attention at all times when someone has a crush on you, they are going to do whatever they can to make sure your eyes are on them. Men do so by teasing you or being playful. Or, they may do things that will make you laugh. Guys know the way to a woman’s heart is to have a good sense of humor. So ladies, don’t be surprised if a guy suddenly jumps into conversations trying to crack jokes, he just wants you to think he’s the funniest guy in the room.
On the other hand, girls also have a few ways to they try to steal the attention of their crushes. If you notice a girl to dress to the nines for the random occasions, there is a good chance she is crushing on you. Girls will also do something as dramatic as pretending to be clumsy. They may bump into you, or even spill something on you to get your attention.
3. Eye Contact
It doesn’t matter if it’s a man or a woman who is falling for you, they could be giving themselves away every time they look at you. Do you ever notice their eyes are always on you? Like you are the only person in the room and no one else matters. If that’s the case, it’s safe to say they have it bad! Or, they could be keeping lingering eye contact with you.
This is because people who keep prolonged eye contact with someone else have increased feelings of love and affection with that person. You can even spot the way their pupils move as an indicator that they secretly love you. If someone is crushing on you, their pupils will dilate, because they like what they see.
4. The Way They Talk
Not only should you pay attention if a crush is always reaching out to you, but you should also pay attention to what they say. When someone likes you, they want to get to know you. Many times, when guys are in love with a girl, they will ask them as many questions as possible.
If they think there is a lull in the convo, they will continue to question you until a meaningful conversation ensues. They will do the same thing through text messages, as well. If they feel like you are trying to end the conversation, they will keep asking you questions so that you stick around.
5. They Show Up
There is a good way to figure out if someone likes you or not, but you have to pay attention. Are they always around, or reaching out to you through social media or texting?
When someone has a crush, they can’t help but think about the person they are crushing on. That means they are going to try to be around them any chance they get. Don’t be surprised if this person finds out you like running and suddenly takes up running themselves. This a just a way for them to get close to you.